
Do Women Want To Be Hit On?
- By Swinggcat
- author of Real World Seduction
I've got a question for
you: Do women enjoy
being hit on - or do they loath it? If YOU
know in your heart-of-hearts women enjoy
it - maybe even love it - you're well on
your way to experiencing massive success
with da ladies. If you've got the belief,
though, that women find men hitting on
them more annoying than nails against a
chalk board you're in big trouble.
But DON'T worry, my friend, because you're
in the same position most men are.
Many a man believes women hate to be hit
on - and rightfully so. If you, for
example, frequent the bar or club scene
you've probably overheard groups of women
yapping away about how they fear and loath
men hitting on them.
But if this were so, women would wear shower
curtains to bars
and nightclubs. But they don't. They wear
skimpy little outfits to maximize the
amount of male attention they get.
I'm gonna return to this train of thought
in a moment. But before I do, I want to
shed some serious light on why believing
women don't like to be hit on is akin to
sentencing your penis to life in prison
with no chance of parole. No hope of him
ever vacationing in that warm, cuddly
place he enjoys dancing into the wee
hours of the morning to that old Digital
Underground song "Do The Humpty Hump."
The only love he's gonna get is from
Bubba's nether regions.
Having this belief will cause a man
to fear
and loath hitting on women. He'll, for
example, think to himself: "If I approach a
woman she'll see me as an insidious little
vermin she wants shunted from her reality."
If he does get up the gall to approach a
woman, he's gonna have scrawled across his
forehead in permanent red ink: "I'm so
scared you'll reject me, I'm about to poop
my pants."
This will communicate to her, he's a
consummate gimp. Women feel no attraction
for gimps. They feel attraction toward men
who are a Prize they've gotta win over.
Okay. I think I've convinced you of how
wretched this belief is. How it will pound
any future opportunities with beautiful
women into jelly.
But you might be having second thoughts.
Maybe you're not fully convinced. So I'm
gonna rewind and go back to my original
train of thought: "The belief that women
don't like to be hit on is crap." If this
belief ever crossed paths with the Food &
Drug Administration they'd stamp it with
an official FDA seal saying: "100%
Certified B.S."
Why do you think women spend so much
time - sometimes hours - primping and
preening themselves to go out to nightclubs
and bars? Because they want to be hit on.
There's a school of thought, though, that
says: "Women don't dress up for men; they
do it for other women."
I think there's a grain of truth
here but
what this means is that women dress up to
compete with other women for male
attention.
For male validation. In other
words, one of the reasons women put time
into primping and preening themselves is
to compete for who gets hit on the most by
men. Many a woman will never explicitly admit
she enjoys men hitting on her. If she did,
she'd risk other women perceiving her as
being at the top of the Slut-O-Meter. Or,
even worse, people thinking she's a power
hungry rhymes-with-witch. Wanting to be
hit on is one of women's dirty little
secrets.
Think of those stupid, gossip magazines -
such as, Enquire and Star. Almost everyone
talks about how stupid these publications
are and claims to have never picked one up.
This is B.S.
If most people didn't read them, their
circulation wouldn't be so widespread.
The lurid reality is this: Most of us can't
wait to get our dirty little paws all over
these magazines while standing in line at
the supermarket. A lot of us have too much
pride to admit it. But almost all of us
get picked up by our lapels and sucked
into the contents of these papers.
Same holds true with women. Most women
claim, they hate when guys hit on them. But
most women love it. They can't get enough
of it. But they'll never admit it. It's
their dirty little secret.
When you make no apologies for
hitting on a
woman and convey the belief that by YOU
hitting on her you're doing her a favor, it
lets her know she's dealing with a real man
who's a Prize she has to win over.
If YOU believe women want
and love to be
hit on, you're half way to massive success
with women. All you've gotta do is learn
the right way to hit on women.
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Real World Seduction Your Loyal Dating Coach,
Swinggcat
"Dr. Attraction"

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