Death and Rebirth of the “Self” –
the continuing cycle of personal growth
- By Derek Vitalio, Seduction Science

There are many reasons to learn the science of seduction - to have more girls, to find the perfect girlfriend, to have a wild sex life, and to have the attention and affection of lots of beautiful women.

However, it’s just as easy to have excuses NOT to act.

There’s one particular excuse I hear over and over again – and it’s said in many ways.

“I want a woman to like me for who I am...”

“I don't want to be pretending like I'm someone else...”

“I want to be myself... I don't like the idea of pretending to be someone that I’m not...”

Well some guys need to swallow the hard fact that “being themselves” is the same as “being a loser” or “being a non-sexual friend” to women. And “being themselves” has gotten them absolutely nowhere.

If you followed the “I want to be myself” to get women argument to its logical conclusion, why would you ever go to school? What would be the point of making more money? What would be the point of hanging out with friends and practicing your social skills? What’s the point of getting a nicer car? What’s the point in dressing in clothes? Don’t you just want women to like you for your “real self” after all?

Take high school or college for example. Were you really “being yourself” when you sat in class? Did you sit down and shut up and spend hours looking at books because coming out of your mother’s womb, that’s what you had decided to do? Or did you act that way because you were socialized to be an obedient student over many years?

You learned to excuse yourself and go to the bathroom so you wouldn’t embarrass yourself with a stinky mess in the middle of class.

You learned to read and write to get ahead in life and be an educated person.

You learned to ride a bicycle and to drive to get from point A to point B.

None of these things were “natural” to you at one time. But you learned them anyway.
And yeah, you were never socialized to be a natural at attracting beautiful women. Don’t worry, most men aren’t.

So why would you settle for third best – especially with such an excuse?

Every time you learn something new, you’re different. Every day you change your behavior your old self dies and your new self is born.

A rich life is one of continual death and rebirth. As soon as you stop growing, changing, and learning, you’re living a living death – kind of like that poor guy in the sanitized suburbs whose never taken a vacation, been going to the same job for over 20 years, and leads a totally boring life with a woman he doesn’t like. That’s living the life of machine, someone who has stopped growing and learning - a Darth Vader like existence.

Think about it like this. At all times when you started something new, it wasn’t you. At first, it may have felt downright strange or even scary. But as you become comfortable with it, you incorporate it into your psyche and it becomes part of you – the new you. That’s how we mature and grow as people.

Remember, you are not bound to be who you were yesterday. You are not your past. The past is over. The past is a hallucination in your mind. You don’t need to let your past control you. With the snap of your fingers you can decide right now to take action and do something different than what you did the day before – in fact, you can decide to be a whole new person who takes massive action right now.

In fact, why not decide that TODAY you are going to stretch your boundaries. That TODAY you can do things or act in new ways that aren’t normally “you”.

Sure, at first you may feel uncomfortable. At first you may not feel exactly “yourself”. And yes, sometimes you do have to “fake it until you make it”. But living life and growing as a human being is about pushing the boundary of your comfort zone in order to improve and expand into new areas of experience.

And in time, as with everything else in life, those new behaviors will be incorporated into who you are and the rewards will come to you.

Seduction Science, with years of development behind it, will show you exactly what to do to take action and start having beautiful women in your life right away. Seduction Science will show you how to push your comfort zone just enough to give you immediate results while taking the fear out of the seduction process.

Now is the time to push your boundaries and smash your self-imposed limitations. Now is the time to smash those self-doubts and limiting beliefs that hold you back. Now is the time to smash the weight of the past that hangs like a nightmare over the potential of today. Get your copy of Seduction Science today!

Derek Vitalio
Seduction Science