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Value Zinging Beautiful Women
By Derek Vitalio - Seduction Science

A hot girl won’t sleep with you unless you have social value to her. So to create attraction you want to build your social value. But at the same time, you can also lower hers.

Let’s say you’re in a group with a hot girl and her friends. One of the most effective ways of lowering the hot girl’s social value is to entertain and talk with her friends, but to ignore her.
There’s another way as well. And that’s with value zingers.

Here are some examples of value zingers that you can use on hot girls-

For a girl with a belly shirt:

“Did your shirt shrink in the laundry?”

“Your roots are showing.”

“Your nose is a little red. You’re like an Eskimo. Cool.”

"You know, you look just like my little sister. Weird.”

“You know, I like that outfit you’ve got on… but I don’t know… your shoes don’t really match. You should have gone with tan boots… or…”

To her guy friends, “So what’s special about this one.”

If she’s talking tell her friends, “So do you guys ever get a word in edge wise?”

“Hey… you look like that cartoon character… yeah that’s right, Rainbow Brite remember her?”“ I like your eyes. Hey… are you wearing colored contacts??? (before she can answer) Oh my god, no way, you are…”

“You know, your body language is all closed off. It makes you look like one of those newborns I saw on the discovery channel when they come out of the womb – all curled up.”

“You’re a goof.”

Suddenly, the hot girl in the group, who is normally the center of everyone's attention, is suddenly being ignored by you.

You’ve also indicated to her with a value zinger that you’re not interested in her over anyone else in the group.

This is a new thing for her. She’ll feel the bitter sting of being just like everyone else. Her looks no longer give her all the power – because you’re not responding to her looks.

Because you're demonstrating social value to the group at the same time she’s wondering, “Why isn’t this guy attracted to me? Why isn’t this guy paying attention to me? Who is this guy? How am I going to win this guy’s attention?”

Everyone wants to be liked. Everyone wants approval. No one wants to be ignored.

The same holds true for beautiful women – even more so. Their whole reality is based on having power and having acceptance and adulteration through their good looks. Take that away and their whole reality crumbles and they’ll do anything to get it back.

And the only way she can get her social value back is by winning your acceptance and winning your attention and respect.

With a value zinger and ignoring the hot girl, while you simultaneously build social value with her friends, the hot girl will be eager to jump through and pass your screening tests – and revel in your acceptance like a little girl.

Here’s how it works. Let’s say you walk into a nightclub. Your social value is a 6 – nothing special. You begin talking to a group of girls, one of whom is a 9 – extremely hot. You build social value up to an 8 through leading the group, stories, roleplaying, teasing, and so on. At the same time, you ignore the hot 9 and give a value zinger to her, bringing her down to “just another random chick” status… just another 7.

All of this happens rather quickly. You entertain her friends while ignoring her. Then you give her a value zinger.

Or it can go like this: open the group of girls and immediately throw a value zinger at the hot one to show everyone you’re not there to hit on her and to lower her social value in relation to yours. Then start telling stories, teasing, and so on to build your value with the group.

Value zingers are ideal for really hot girls – 8s, 9s, and 10s. For an average girl (6s, 7s), you don't need to use value ziners. All you need to do is demonstrate social value - you don’t need to lower hers. Hers wasn’t that high to begin with.

For example, let’s say you walk into a club, you’re a 6, and you start talking to a 7. You raise your social value to an 8. That’s all you need to do. You’re already higher than her. Done. No need to use value zingers.

And value zingers are unnecessary and inappropriate to use on girls who are already being friendly or giving you green lights. Don’t throw one out of the blue for no reason at a girl whose already responding well.

But if she’s super hot and you’ve just met her, that’s a different story. Use a value zinger or two on her.

Now it’s critical to use value zingers right. Remember, you’re not out to damage the girl’s self confidence or put her down. You’re not out to mess up her self-esteem. Some guys in particular cross the line and start throwing soft insults and treating women like second-class human beings when they don’t deserve it. That's why the term "negs" that some people use is misleading.

The point is to make yourself stand out as socially valuable male and a challenge, not to make her feel bad.

But used correctly, value zingers are a powerful tool in your aresnal. Just be sure to go out and practice!


Until next time,
Derek Vitalio
Seduction Science

 



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