Value Zinging Beautiful Women
By Derek Vitalio - Seduction
Science
A hot girl won’t sleep
with you unless you have social value to her. So to create
attraction you want to build your
social value. But at the same time, you can also lower hers.
Let’s
say you’re in a group with a hot girl and
her friends. One of the most effective ways of lowering the
hot girl’s social value is to entertain and talk with
her friends, but to ignore her.
There’s another way as well. And that’s with
value zingers.
Here are some examples of value zingers that
you can use on hot girls-
For a girl with a belly shirt:
“Did your shirt shrink
in the laundry?”
“Your roots are showing.”
“Your nose is a little red. You’re
like an Eskimo. Cool.”
"You know, you look just like
my little sister. Weird.”
“You know, I like that outfit you’ve
got on… but
I don’t know… your shoes don’t really
match. You should have gone with tan boots… or…”
To
her guy friends, “So what’s special about
this one.”
If she’s talking tell her friends, “So
do you guys ever get a word in edge wise?”
“Hey… you look like that cartoon
character… yeah
that’s right, Rainbow Brite remember her?”“
I like your eyes. Hey… are you wearing colored contacts???
(before she can answer) Oh my god, no way, you are…”
“You know, your body language is all
closed off. It makes you look like one of those newborns
I saw on the discovery
channel when they come out of the womb – all curled
up.”
“You’re a goof.”
Suddenly,
the hot girl in the group, who is normally the center of
everyone's attention, is suddenly being ignored
by you.
You’ve also indicated to her with a value
zinger that you’re not interested in her over anyone
else in the group.
This is a new thing for her. She’ll
feel the bitter sting of being just like everyone else.
Her looks no longer
give her all the power – because you’re not
responding to her looks.
Because you're demonstrating
social value to the group at the same time she’s
wondering, “Why isn’t
this guy attracted to me? Why isn’t this guy paying
attention to me? Who is this guy? How am I going to win
this guy’s attention?”
Everyone wants to be
liked. Everyone wants approval. No one wants to be ignored.
The
same holds true for beautiful women – even more
so. Their whole reality is based on having power and
having acceptance and adulteration through their good looks.
Take
that away and their whole reality crumbles and they’ll
do anything to get it back.
And the only way she can get
her social value back is by winning your acceptance and
winning your attention
and
respect.
With a value zinger and ignoring the hot girl,
while you simultaneously build social value with her friends,
the
hot girl will be eager to jump through and pass your
screening tests – and revel in your acceptance
like a little girl.
Here’s how it works. Let’s
say you walk into a nightclub. Your social value is a
6 – nothing special.
You begin talking to a group of girls, one of whom is
a 9 – extremely
hot. You build social value up to an 8 through leading
the group, stories, roleplaying, teasing, and so on.
At the same
time, you ignore the hot 9 and give a value zinger to
her, bringing her down to “just another random
chick” status… just
another 7.
All of this happens rather quickly. You entertain
her friends while ignoring her. Then you give her a value
zinger.
Or it can go like this: open the group of girls
and immediately throw a value zinger at the hot one to show
everyone
you’re
not there to hit on her and to lower her social value
in relation to yours. Then start telling stories, teasing,
and so on to build your value with the group.
Value zingers
are ideal for really hot girls – 8s,
9s, and 10s. For an average girl (6s, 7s), you don't
need to use value ziners. All you need to do is demonstrate
social
value - you don’t need to lower hers. Hers wasn’t
that high to begin with.
For example, let’s say
you walk into a club, you’re
a 6, and you start talking to a 7. You raise your social
value to an 8. That’s all you need to do. You’re
already higher than her. Done. No need to use value zingers.
And
value zingers are unnecessary and inappropriate to use
on girls who are already being friendly or giving
you green
lights. Don’t throw one out of the blue for no
reason at a girl whose already responding well.
But if
she’s super hot and you’ve just met her,
that’s a different story. Use a value zinger or
two on her.
Now it’s critical to use value zingers
right. Remember, you’re not out to damage the girl’s
self confidence or put her down. You’re not out
to mess up her self-esteem. Some guys in particular cross
the line and start throwing
soft insults and treating women like second-class human
beings when they don’t deserve it. That's why the
term "negs" that
some people use is misleading.
The point is to make yourself
stand out as socially valuable male and a challenge,
not to make her feel bad.
But used correctly, value
zingers are a powerful tool in your aresnal. Just be sure
to go out and practice!
Until next time,
Derek Vitalio
Seduction Science
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